INFJ
The Counselor
Caring, reflective, creative, deep thinking, idealistic values, eloquent, visionary
Don’t let people who don’t care about you, manipulate your mind, feelings and emotions or control how you think about yourself. Never give that much power to someone else.”
― Karon Waddell
Emotional intelligence, empathy, intuition, compassion, holding space for others non-judgmental
Characteristics
Loyal and unconditional is the love this queen provides. Something about her allows her to pick up on the hurt in other people, and she wants to make it all go away. This metaphysical empathetic ability may or may not be developed in her yet, but she’s already naturally picking up on the vibrations of others whether or not she knows it. All she does know is her intuition is unnaturally heightened, and she’s not open about it. At heart she has tour best interest and is a valued ally. This Queen is will pick up the fragments of your soul every time it shatters like glass against rock bottom. She could be highly creative, a visionary, or an artist of some kind.
Their bad side is ignorance, and naivety. The weight of her emotions is present in all of her decisions which means that they are often for some sort of gain. Intentionally or not they are naïve and will overlook obvious warning signs. Perhaps because the truth is too much for her fragile heart to bear.
Symbolism
A serene queen sits on a throne at the water’s edge, holding an ornate, lidded cup. The throne features cherubs and water motifs; the sea at her feet shows gentle waves and a scallop shell. Her contemplative gaze and cup suggest deep empathy, intuition, psychic receptivity, and emotional nurturing.
Meaning
Right now, it’s crucial to listen to your heart, it required emotional nurturing and the revealing of your compassion. With your empathy, you can be a safe haven from the hurt in the people around you. There is a certain healing energy that washes over them when you’re around. Explore your emotional side and help others at the same time. Don’t forget to remember about yourself; if helping becomes overbearing take a moment to recover.
Imagination can bring you achievement right now as dreaming can quickly become reality. There is power in your intuition and your gut instincts now. Use your creativity to express your authenticity. Explore the depths of your soul with each moment of manifestation.
Queen of Cups Reversed
“The heart that cannot love, cannot be loved.” — Unknown
Overwhelmed, boundary loss, codependency, absorbing others feelings at own expense
Meaning
Overwhelm
It feels like the flood gates have opened inside of you releasing all the chaos your heart has to hold. Responsibilities or emotional burdens are sinking your ship. If you take a step back and analyze the situation, break it down into bite sized pieces, you will find you’re making a mountain out of molehills. Granted there maybe many molehills, but it’s still no mountain.
Weak Boundaries
Remember that the boundaries you set are there for a reason. Not only are they there for you, but often times they exist for the sake of others as well.
Keep this in mind when your fortitude weakens. Your boundaries don’t just keep you safe, they keep others safe as well.
Codependency
If you can’t imagine doing anything without them, there’s a problem. There’s a sacredness in solitude that you’re missing out on. Having true companionship means knowing when to let them go at something alone, and allowing yourself to do the same.
Toxic Empathy
Sometimes we can’t help but to take on others suffering, though when everyone’s hurting including yourself it’s absolutely detrimental to yourself. Take some time away from others and seek solace in yourself.
Refusing your intuition
The Queen of Cups is known as a woman who is in touch with her inner world. As a result, the Queen of cups reversed is neglecting that intuition. You’re losing touch with yourself and the very magic that you’re known for.
